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Updated Book Club Planning

I run a book club called Women, Wine, and Crime in the Denver, CO area, open to women interested in murder mystery and true crime books. I took over this book club in August of 2020, we read fiction and non-fiction, a new book every (roughly) 6 weeks. I find that six weeks, along with some other parameters I’ve fine-tuned, has increased attendance and more members have fished a larger portion of the book. Here’s a list of past, present, and potential books we’ve read.

I started doing a book every 6 weeks or so last year and it really improved attendance; people had more time to read and more fodder for conversation. We go to different places each time and I initially hadn’t kept track. A few favorites are now closed and I’ve been getting more recommendations from members so I started a sheet that has locations, if they’re good, need to be re-vetted, or are a “no” with qulifiers of “closed” or “bad”; bad being either rudeness, group size difficulties, or parking issues.

I’ve made some changes and have explanded my GoogleSheets that I use plan and organize upcoming events and books.
“my GoogleSheets” is a hyperlink to the actual organizer for you to check out as inspo

Recently, memebers have been asking me for more events that are not necessarily book reviews. I’ve decided to comply with the masses and, sandwiched between evey other book, add some other activities. Since the book club is named Women, Wine, and Crime, I decided that the first two would be No Crime, Just Wine; just to get together. The third one will be a book exchange in July since the one in December went well. Essentially, it’s scheduled: book, six weeks, book, three weeks, event, three weeks, book, six weeks, book, etc. So we don’t have an event every three weeks which I think would run the members ragged. The first No Crime, Just Wine, is January 27th; I’ll let you guys know how it goes!

If you view the sheets, let me know if you have any recommendations to improve. I’m also always looking for book recommendations, for the book club or otherwise. If you run a book club, I hope this helps.

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Tax FAQs and Tips

I’d like to make a shout out to my fiance, Cameron, who wrote this. He is a tax professional who is working for an accounting firm and who is often the source of explanations for family and friends. Here are some insights on the annual ritual of filing your taxes in the U.S..

“…[I]n this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.”

Benjamin Franklin, in a letter to Jean-Baptiste Le Roy, 1789

For most people in the U.S., filing taxes is a simple matter of putting a bunch of numbers into tax software, finding out they get some money back, and not giving it a second thought. This post explains the basics of the US federal income tax system in simple terms as it applies to most people and lists a few FAQs about taxes. A common tax colloquialism in response to how a specific item is treated for tax purposes is “it depends.”

DISCLAIMER: Please understand that this is a general guide and not step-by-step instructions on how to file one’s taxes.
For detailed tax questions you should see a tax professional.

Do I need to file taxes?
You must file a federal tax return if you owe federal income taxes, and you should file if you had taxes withheld (since you might get some or all of them refunded).

The IRS prints in the Form 1040 instructions booklet Charts A-C that detail the conditions that create a tax filing requirement. Chart A is for most taxpayers. Chart B is for dependents. Chart C lists some other special cases.

If you don’t have a tax filing requirement, but federal income tax was withheld from your paychecks because you did not claim “exempt” from withholding, then you should file taxes (even though you don’t owe anything) to get the withholding back as a refund.

If you were paid without any taxes taken out, e.g. in cash or otherwise as a so-called 1099 employee, you need to file and pay taxes if you made at least $400. These “self-employment” taxes are more complicated, so be prepared to learn about how those work.

To file your taxes there are a few different options. You can pay someone to do it for you (probably $100+), you can do it yourself using the paper forms (I do not recommend doing this), you can use an online site, or you can download tax prep software. Some of these options can be free, especially if you have only typical income levels and “tax situations”, e.g. no dependents, and only W-2 income. You will need your W-2/1099 and it should not take more than an hour to complete. Good luck!

(This covers only federal taxes. If you are in one of the 43* states with a state income tax, you will also need to look into those. That’s every state except Alaska, Florida, Nevada, South Dakota, Texas, Washington and Wyoming.)
*Note that Tennessee currently has taxes on investment income, but not employment income.)

Deductions
Deductions reduce the amount of income that is subject to tax: they reduce your taxable income. Deductions fall into three major categories: the standard deduction, itemized deductions, and “above the line” deductions.

– The standard deduction is $12,200 for single filers ($24,400 for married filing jointly). If you claim the standard deduction, this is what you’d put in line 40 of Form 1040.
– If you want to claim itemized deductions instead of the standard deduction, you need to include Schedule A with your tax filing. The total of your itemized deductions goes in line 40 of the 1040 form. The major itemized deductions are for home mortgage interest, state/local/property taxes, and charitable donations. Unfortunately, some of these items were capped in recent tax reform and may limit the amount of itemized deductions you are entitled to.
“Above the line” deductions are listed in lines 23-35 of the 1040. Most require additional documentation to show eligibility. Commonly used deductions in this category include the student loan interest deduction (line 33), the IRA deduction (line 32), and the self-employment tax deduction (line 27).

One of the most common tax questions asked is “Should I itemize or just take the standard deduction?” If the sum of your itemized deductions is not larger than the standard deduction, you’re almost always better off claiming the standard deduction.

Your state may offer its own tax deductions for state taxes. Details vary by state, but one of the most valuable is the deduction for 529 plan contributions if your state offers it.

Exemptions
Recent tax reform has eliminated personal exemptions and dependency exemptions. The tax reform increased the standard deduction and the amounts of some tax credits.

Taxable Income and Tax Brackets
The biggest point of confusion for a tax novice is how the tax brackets affect tax burden.
The marginal tax brackets can help you plan for 2019. I will use the single filing brackets for illustrative purposes.

Say you’re a single filer that has $48,000 in income. Let’s see how the tax brackets determine the total tax.
You can think of your income as occurring in various bits, and each bit will be taxed at a different rate. Those amounts of tax add up to your total tax.

$12,200 standard deduction at 0% = $0 tax
$9,700 at 10% = $970 tax
$26,100 at 12% = $3,132 tax
Total tax = $4,102
Your “taxable income” is $48,000 – $12,200 = $35,800 in the above example.
You might think of your “effective” tax rate as $4,102 / $48,000 (about 8.5%).

Marginal Tax Rates
Your marginal tax rate and your effective tax rate are not the same thing. Moving into a higher marginal tax bracket does not mean your entire income is taxed at that rate.

Suppose your boss calls you in and tells you that you’re getting a $5,000 raise, so now your taxable income is $53,000 per year! Great! But this moves you from the 12% tax bracket into the 22% tax bracket. How does this affect your taxes? Are you making more money, but losing out overall because of an increased tax burden? No. Your income tax is not 22% of $53,000!

Since the tax brackets are marginal, only the amount above the 22% bracket threshold ($39,745 taxable income in 2019) is taxed at 22%. Your new tax calculation looks like this:

$12,200 standard deduction at 0% = $0 tax
$9,700 at 10% = $970 tax
$29,775 at 12% = $3,573 tax
$1,325 at 22% = $292 tax
Total tax = $4,835

Essentially, $3,675 of your raise was taxed at 12% (adding $441 to tax) to fill up the 12% bracket, and $1,325 of your raise was taxed at 22% (adding $292 to tax).
Note that your “taxable income” is $53,000 – $12,200 = $40,800 in the above example, divided into bits of 9,700 + 29,775 + 1,325.

What’s important to see is that you are still taking home more money. Changing tax brackets did not result in you taking home less income.
To confirm this, look at your “after-tax” income in each case:

Before raise: $48,000 income – $4,102 tax = $43,898 after-tax
After raise: $53,000 income – $4,835 tax = $48,165 after-tax
Your “effective” tax rate is now $4,835 / $53,000 (about 9.1%).

Tax Withholding
Your employer is required to withhold taxes from each of your paychecks by law. The formulas for withholding can be found in IRS publication 15. You can adjust your withholding by giving a new modified W-4 form to your employer. The W-4 allows you to specify the number of allowances or extra withholding from your paycheck.

The IRS also provides a withholding calculator that can help you determine if you are withholding too much or too little from your paychecks. The calculator is especially useful if you have more than one W-2 (such as you have multiple jobs or you’re married and both spouses work) or if your job situation changes midyear.

Sometimes it’s hard to understand how the “allowances” you put on your W-4 are related to the amount of withholding that will occur. One way to think about this is as follows. If you’re single, the withholding algorithm will treat this amount of your income as not taxed:

not taxed (single) = $3,900 + $4,150 * (number of allowances)

If you’re a single taxpayer, your $12,200 standard deduction means that $12,200 of your income is not taxed. That is why using “2” allowances on your W-4 line 5 would be appropriate, as that conveys to the withholding algorithm to consider exactly $3,900 + $4,150 * 2 = $12,200 of your income as not taxed.
Similarly, if you’re married but do not have any dependents, the withholding algorithm will treat this amount of your income as not taxed:

not taxed (married) = $11,950 + $4,150 * (number of allowances)

Since when you’re married you get a $24,400 standard deduction, using “3” allowances on your W-4 line 5 is appropriate, as that causes the withholding algorithm to consider $11,550 + $4,150 * 3 = $24,400 of your income as not taxed.

Tax Credits
Tax credits directly reduce your tax burden by effectively giving you a refund. There are dozens of tax credits in the tax code. Some of the more common, subject to eligibility, are the Earned Income Tax Credit, the Child Tax Credit, the Child and Dependent Care credit, Foreign Tax Credit, American Opportunity Tax Credit, and Lifetime Learning Credit. Your state may offer tax credits as well.
If you have a child that is going to make you eligible for child tax credit, you can achieve accurate withholding by adding other allowances, the number required being related to your tax bracket. See the instructions for Form W-4. Quick tip: Since the child tax credit is worth $2000, if you’re in the 10% or 12% bracket, use 4 extra allowances per child; if you’re in the 22% or 24% bracket, use 2 extra allowances per child. This forces less withholding to occur such that the amount less is close to the value of the tax credit. If you don’t adjust your allowances that way, then the tax credit would come to you as a refund after you file.

Tax “Refunds” — Not Ideal
Your tax filing calculates your actual tax obligation to what you’ve had withheld throughout the year. If you under-withhold, you will owe the IRS the difference. Beware that if you purposely under-withhold too much, you may face a penalty.
If your tax obligation is less than what you’ve had withheld throughout the year, the difference is returned to you as a “tax refund.” While it may seem counterintuitive, tax refunds are not a good thing. “Refund” implies that you actually owed the money you paid at some point – this is not the case. Money that you never owed was being held by the government at 0% interest. Instead of working for you throughout the year by paying down debt or funding your retirement accounts, your money was effectively doing nothing for anyone. Aiming for as small a refund as possible, or even owing a small amount, is highly advisable. You can do so by adjusting your allowances on your W-4.

Capital Gains and Capital Losses
Tax rates for capital gains are different than ordinary income tax rates, and the rates apply progressively so that it’s some capital gains are taxed at 0% , some are taxed at 15%, and the rest (above $434,551) are taxed at 20%. The dividing point between 0% and 15% rate changed because of tax reform and does not quite match the line between the 12% and 22% bracket, but it’s very close.

Other Taxes
Several other taxes you will or may be responsible for paying, and will see withheld from your paycheck:
– State/local taxes – rates vary by state and locality.
– Old Age, Survivors, and Disability Insurance – 6.20% on up to a certain amount of taxable income.
– Medicare – 1.45% on your entire taxable income. If you are a high earner you may have to pay an additional 0.9%.

Frequently Asked Questions about Taxes

Should I see someone about my taxes?
Even if you’re itemizing your deductions, the majority of people that ask this question are likely capable of filing their taxes themselves. Tax situations that may merit seeing a professional would be a small business, multiple state residencies/income, or overseas tax issues (foreign tax credit, foreign earned income exclusion). Tax preparation costs vary based on complexity and where you live, but most tax returns can be prepared by a professional for a few hundred dollars.

What tax software should I use?
The highest rated tax software options are as follows:
TurboTax 
Credit Karma Tax 
TaxACT 
FreeTaxUSA 

Companies generally charge more for more complex tax filings with capital gains, rental income, state income taxes, etc.
If you meet certain conditions you can file your federal return for free using commercial software through the IRS Free File site. Since vendors can add additional income and form restrictions, see the IRS Free File Software Offers to check for limitations. Commercial sites have been offering competing free federal versions, but only programs accessed through the IRS Free File portal are guaranteed to be free. The IRS has announced recent changes to the program standards to reinforce this.
If you do not meet the software conditions, you can still use Free File Fillable Forms for a free federal e-file.

What tax preparation assistance programs are there?
Read the Free Tax Return Preparation for Qualifying Taxpayers page on the IRS website. In particular, it highlights these two programs:
1) The Volunteer Income Tax Assistance (VITA) program offers free tax help to people who generally make $56,000 or less, persons with disabilities and limited English speaking taxpayers who need assistance in preparing their own tax returns. IRS-certified volunteers provide free basic income tax return preparation with electronic filing to qualified individuals.
2) In addition to VITA, the Tax Counseling for the Elderly (TCE) program offers free tax help for all taxpayers, particularly those who are 60 years of age and older, specializing in questions about pensions and retirement-related issues unique to seniors. The IRS-certified volunteers who provide tax counseling are often retired individuals associated with non-profit organizations that receive grants from the IRS.

I already filed my taxes. Can I still contribute to a Roth IRA?
Yes. Unless you’re eligible for the saver’s credit then your Roth contribution after you file your return but before the April 15 deadline will not affect your tax filing. Roth contributions are post-tax.
Why doesn’t the student loan interest deduction double for couples married filing jointly?
That’s just the way the tax code was written. The maximum you can deduct in student loan interest is $2,500 regardless of your filing status.

What’s the difference between a tax deduction and a tax credit?
Tax deductions reduce the amount of your income that is taxed, while tax credits reduce your tax burden directly. The amount your tax burden is reduced by a deduction is the amount of the deduction times your marginal tax rate. For example, a tax deduction of $1,000 for someone in the 22% tax bracket will save $220 on their overall tax burden. A tax credit of $1,000 will save $1,000 on their overall tax burden.

Can I claim so-and-so as a dependent?
Use this handy flow chart, fill out the IRS’s handy tool, or refer directly to IRS publication 501.

I screwed up a tax return for a previous tax year. What should I do?
You need to file an amended return, form 1040X. The IRS provides this guidance for filing amended returns. As the IRS notes, your state tax obligation may change based on your federal tax obligation. You may need to file an amended state return as well.

I didn’t file my taxes on time this year, but I’m owed a refund. What should I do?
There’s no penalty for filing late if you’re owed a refund. File normally. (Don’t file a 1040X.) You have 3 years to file to get your refund.

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My New Fav Blogging Tool

Hint: it’s a Google Sheets conditionally formatted log and I’m gonna show you mine and help you make yours!

Mine
Quick brief explanation:
Row 1: My "calendar" is built of Sun-Sat weeks because my work schedule goes Sun-Sat. The "Week" the the Sunday that heads that week up.

Row 2: Tuesday Date is the date of the Tuesday of that week so I stay on track for a TTT post or for a substitute short post.

Row 3: Tuesday Post - About is what the post will be about. Either a general idea or a title.

Row 4: Tuesday Post Completed - Is it done? (Blank means no...)

Row 5: Thursday Date is the date of the Thursday of that week so I have a target date.

Row 6: Thursday Post - About is what the post will be about. Either a general idea or a title.

Row 7: Thursday Post Completed - Is it done? (Blank means no...)

I know that got a little repetitive, it was important to do so. For mine:::
When the “about” rows are filled, they go from pink to bluish teal.
When they “completed” rows have data, they go from pink to green.
When the “completed” rows have data, their corresponding date turn teal so I know the post for that date is done.
When both “completed” rows of a week say “yes” and only “yes”, Row 1’s “date” will turn green to show that the week is completed.

(side note- I decided to switch my homeopathic cures and this posts' post dates... so...)

Pretty nifty, huh? Want one for yourself? Here’s how you get like me.

  1. First, figure out whether your week starts on Sunday or Monday.
  2. Open a new GoogleSheets doc, name it something fun and exciting like “blog log” or “dinosaur dreams”.
  3. Consider your color spectrum, you’ll need two. One for when items are not complete and one for when they are. I went with yellow pink and purple for my “incompletes” and shades of green for my done done done.
  4. Row One
    1. Title the first cell
    2. In the next two cells type in the first two “start of the week” dates.
    3. Click and hold your mouse over A:1 and drag the mouse over the rest of the row, it’ll repeat the pattern you created.
    4. Click the “1” so it highlights the row, pick your “head of the week incomplete” color.
  5. Row Two
    1. Repeat steps one and two of Row One, but with the date of the week for the days of your first weekly blog post
      (Two Monday dates, or whatever you do boo boo).
    2. Click the “2”, choose your “incomplete” color
  6. Row Three
    1. Title the first cell
    2. Click the “3” and choose your “incomplete” color
  7. Row Four
    1. Title the first cell
    2. Click the “4” and choose your “incomplete” color
  8. Rows Five Through Seven
    1. Repeat Rows Two through Four.
  9. If you do more than two regular posts a week, repeat as needed for your days of the week.

Whew! Now your “incomplete” is set and you’re ready for some conditional formatting.

  1. Row One
    1. =And($B$4:$Z$4=”yes”, $B$7:$Z$7=”yes”)
      This is the code I have, as you can see it uses a conditional formula which is dependent upon Row 4 (B4 through Z4, and Z is my current last column) equaling “yes” as well as a conditional for Row 7 set the same way. If you are going to have more than the two posts, be sure to extend the conditions. My Row 4 and Row 7 are the two rows where my “post completed”s are. So once both posts for the week are completed, with no contingencies, and the cells say “yes” and only “yes”, the week is done. (the “=” is part of the equation)
    2. Once the formula is set, select the color for the condition. In the same side-bar that the column is written there’s a color selection. It should have auto-populate with the “incomplete” color you chose so be sure to change it to what you would like as your “complete” color.
  2. Row Two
    1. =$B$4:$Z$4>0
      This formula references Row 4 (where my “post completed” for that day is) only and the “>0” is greater-than-zero meaning as long as there is a value row four of the same column, the formatting applies.
    2. Pick the color for this formula being complete
  3. Row Three
    1. Since this row is conditional only upon itself you just click the cell, select conditional formatting, and when the side bar comes up there is a drop down. From the drop down choose “is not empty” and
    2. Pick your “completed” color
  4. Row Four
    1. Same as Row Three
  5. Row Five
    1. =$B$7:$Z$7>0
      Just like Row Two but referencing Row 7
  6. Row Six
    1. Same as Row 3
  7. Row Seven
    1. Same as Row 4

And now you’ve got a formatted amazing blog log to help you bloggy blog in the blogosphere!
Get Shwifty!!

Get Shwifty
Rick & Morty S2E5

Got questions? Need help? Comment and I’ll do my darnedest! Happy blogging!

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Journaling Styles and Techniques

Alright, so I saw a therapist for the first time in at least a decade on the 27th of Feb. She told me to journal and suggested three formats; it’s been ____ days and I haven’t journaled yet. This is partly because of my crazy new work schedule and mostly because I’m simply not prioritizing the time to journal; also because I’m not sure how I feel about the styles she gave me and I have no idea what to write about.

Journaling Styles from my Therapist:

– Venting Journaling – Write down things down and then bring them to positivity. Write what is going terribly wrong and what I am doing to fix it, should do to fix it, options for fixing it, or deciding to let go and really truly let go. Also jot things that are going well and how to continue the positivity.
The problem with this style, for me, is that in the moments I go to journal, I don’t have anything to vent about. Nothing about my life, daily or otherwise,
sucks. Much of it that is good is just good on it’s own. I mean, solid job, happy home, loving and amazing partner. I’m not saying there’s nothing that isn’t perfect, and I’m not saying everything scores a ten out of ten, but I don’t have anything rant-worthy or rave-worthy that drove me to go see her (the therapist).
– Letter Writing – Write letters to people and DO NOT give them to them.
Who am I writing these letters to What about? Why would I write stuff to someone I can’t speak freely enough to, that I couldn’t just tell them to their face? I just don’t even know where to begin.
– Free Flow – Write anything, everything, that you’re thinking or feeling.
So, this one requires space and peace and concentration for me. A great time to do this would be when I’m trying to fall asleep and my mind won’t shut up. The problem is, if I sit up to write I’ll be up so much later than if I just focus on the sleep sounds and drift off. Before work I’m either at the gym or my boyfriend is running from the basement to our bedroom on the second floor getting ready for work. After work, I’m spending time with my boyfriend for an hour before we go to bed (I work late). This is somewhere between me not prioritizing, not timing it right, and not feeling up to creating the space this would be best approached in.

As you can see, there’s hints of me just not wanting to do this sprinkled in. I just don’t see the value in it.

There’s a million and one studies that say journaling helps all kinds of ails. From food journaling for weight loss to getting your feelings out in a cathartic and safe manner for anxiety, depression, and general stress. I can’t find anything that says it doesn’t work and yet, I don’t believe it does. I’ve tried it. I tried it as a child, as a teen, as a college young adult, and even two years ago when I got out here I tried it for a while. No results, nothing useful cam of it.

Journaling is great if you don’t have someone you can completely open up to. I have that.

Journaling is great if you have trouble identifying where an issue is stemming from. I don’t have that problem.

Journaling is great if you aren’t good at expressing yourself or your feelings. Again, not a problem for me.

So why am I paying a therapist if I’m just going to write it all out and figure it out for myself? Again, what is going in this journal that isn’t readily available for me to have already addressed or am already aware of and trying to work through in therapy?

Let’s be clear, I’m going to try. Really. Umpteenth time’s the charm.
I have the day off tomorrow and my boyfriend will be at work and I’ll do a journal entry and try to find inspiration, time, or a plan to journal Thursday before or after work. I think this really could end up being a lot of a placebo thing though- where since I don’t think it’ll work, it won’t work.

Since I’m going to try it, it’s probably worth looking in to other techniques, as I’m clearly not taking to the three the therapist proposed.

– List-Making Journaling- Exactly as it sounds, just make lists. Decide what to list and have at it. Or don’t decide, and just list. Then review the list and see if thoughts fully form or issues surface that can be addressed.
I am a list maker, a schedule keeper, a planner, and all the Type-A stereotypes. I might try this one. I think maybe a mix of venting and list-making is what will come from my journaling time.
– Art Journaling- The concept of switching from words to images and getting them down on paper in the form of doodles, drawings, comics, etc.
I do love to doodle. I even had started to try drawing people once and really enjoyed just practicing lines and curves and expressions.
– Dialogue Journaling- Write out a dialogue. It could be one that has happened, one that you wish happened, or completely made up. It could take place between people you know, yourself and yourself in different times of your life, or between completely fictional characters.
I could toy with this. Have my heart talk to my head, or relive conversations that surface from the depths of my memories.
– Tracking Journaling- Writing down your feelings as they happen and what triggered them. Then you can reflect, find a pattern, and deal with anything recurring.
This is something I have actually been considering after hearing about but not really taking to bullet journaling and knowing that revisiting things after they happen often has a different perception than I had in the moment.

There are many other processes of journaling, and platforms. At the end of the day, it’s about what’s feasible, what will get you to prioritize it, and making the effort to be in a safe place to reflect and create. Hopefully if you make these efforts, journaling will yield the results you’re looking for. I will keep you posted on my follow through to journal as well as if I feel it’s making a difference.

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