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This week’s prompt is “How I shake off a bad mood”.
I battle anxiety and depression, which is a unique animal and is different for everyone who experiences these. Largely, I manage these with meds that work very effectively. Sometimes I have a bout of severe depression or an anxiety attack. For me, if I’m having an anxiety attack, I take prescribed Xanax. For depression, I have to manage things in varying ways. In either case, I have a husband who supports me in these situations, and I’ve been dealing with things long enough that I know what I need.
When I have an anxiety attack, I need comfort and reassurance. I need comfy clothes, comfort food, and for Cameron to be near me. For depression, my needs vary. Sometimes I need the same things listed for anxiety, other times I need to be outside, or left alone, or or to be allowed to wallow and be unproductive, or force myself to be productive.
Outside of these extreme emotions, I approach my moods variably. For one thing, I don’t always realize I’m in a mood until Cameron says something. I also get hangry, so an easy fix is some food and water. I’m working on monitoring my inner-voice, so when I have a road-rage response in my mind, I try to talk myself out of it and find a reasonable excuse for their behavior. When I speak, I’m working on monitoring my phrasing and headspace before I do so, especially in case I’m in a mood. I work on identifying my feelings and reactions so that I can tell if I’m in a mood, and I try to let things go. I recommend The Happiness Project, which I plan to reread again in the near future even though I think I read it a couple of months ago.
I also work on preventing mood swings. My medications definitely have stabilized me more than I could have ever hoped. That being said, I’m still a human being and mood swings are normal. Exercising regularly, seeing friends, eating healthy-ish, and just general self-care and small indulgences have been improving my mood consistency.
What do you do when you’re in a funk, or to prevent getting into a mood in the first place?
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